We've had the conversation a million times before in different variations, about risk, levels you are willing to accept, how it changes when you add a spouse to your life, and then kids. For those of us who spend our time enjoying the mountains, it is a topic each must reckon with over and over. Unfortunately, one of the ways it comes back up is when a friend or loved one dies...and then, you reassess what you thought before, what choices you will make going forward as you climb and ski your beloved mountains.
On April 12, 2014, our friend and fellow Backcountry Betty died in an avalanche in B.C. Ellie was not a close friend but I feel the blow nonetheless. We toured in the backcountry together a few times, went mountain biking on local trails, and also spent a week with her and her family riding and camping in Utah.
I do not have the details of the avalanche, although I hope we will be privy to them at some point. I don't wish to publish a post about the decision-making process, the conditions, or anything along those lines. I do not wish to judge.
Ellie leaves behind two wonderful little boys who will always love her dearly. She was full of life, passion, and intensity. She was highly dedicated to her role as mother, and she was still her own person, something which I find rare in women. I admired her greatly. We spoke openly about the continual challenge of balancing motherhood and responsibility with our outdoor pursuits. I remember discussing with her the topic of risk, as we toured in the backcountry on a white-out day. She was neither careless nor ignorant in the mountains, but still, she is gone.
To my friend Ellie and to all of you Betties, peace and love and be safe.
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